Saturday, August 3, 2024

SO DO I

“Jill” will celebrate her 89th birthday in two weeks.   She called our office asking if someone could come out to her home and educate her about hospice and palliative care.  Jill has suffered from hip and leg pain for quite a while.   She feels that her primary physician isn’t doing what needs to be done to help with her pain.  

Jill knew that hospice was all about comfort care and pain control.  Physicians refer patients with a guesstimation of a life span of six months or less. Jill has minimal health problems and does not quality for hospice at all.  She does qualify for Palliative Care.  We need her doctor to make a referral to our office.  Jill was agreeable to e-mail her doctor requesting that referral along with a referral to the Pain Clinic for relief of her hip and leg pain.

 While sharing her life, it was so amazing how much the two of us had in common.    Jill stated, “We were so meant to meet”.  I strongly feel the same. She called me an angel as I was leaving.  Not surprisingly, I felt the same about her.


SO DO I 

 

She has suffered with hip and leg pain for a while.

Her doctor talks about the pain clinic, but doesn’t refer.

She knows very little about hospice and palliative care;

so, I went out to educate her on both.

 

I asked about her beautiful painting on the wall.

She said it was Paris; I said, “I’ve never been.”

She then asked, “Where has been your favorite vacation?”

I answered, “On safari in Kenya and Tanzania.”

“I’ve been there too and it also is my favorite.”

 

She said she initially studied chemistry in college, as did I.

Both of us were then drawn to Social Work; earning our LCSW.

She walked me to her garden as that so helped her cope.

She loved taking photos as it so captured the garden’s beauty.

I too, love photography, remembering my first camera at age eight.

 

As I was leaving, she said that she wrote poetry;

while handing me one of her poems to read.

I got goosebumps while responding back to her,

“You won’t be surprised at all by my answer as,

                     So do I.”

 

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