THE JOURNEY

Tracy, a dear friend and co-worker, lost one of her friends a little over two months ago. Her friend, Ute, suffered from Pancreatic Cancer. Ute was single and lived alone. She had no family locally so relied on her large group of friends for support. Tracy was her dearest friend in addition to being one of her primary caregivers.

Tracy informed me three days ago that there will be a Celebration of Life for Ute this coming weekend. Tracy wanted to speak at the Memorial, but wasn't quite sure what to say. She asked me to write a poem for her to read. I asked her to jot down a few thoughts that she had about her friend and what might she like to share with folks at the Memorial.

Yesterday, Tracy texted me several thoughts. It was so amazing as right after dinner, I went upstairs to my computer with hopes of writing a poem for Tracy. I sat down and it all came spilling out so quickly. As I was finishing up and completing the last line, I struggled with replacing the word "journey" with another. I could not quite capture the right word. I sat quietly for just a moment and the word "life" just popped in my head. For me, that was the perfect word.

I truly believe Ute helped me write this poem as she spiritually relayed the perfect word to me. After Tracy read the poem this morning, I told her that Ute was with me as I wrote the words. In addition, I shared how I also believe that the poem also expresses Ute's thanks right back to Tracy. The poem is a mirror that reflects to both Tracy and Ute. I feel so honored that Tracy asked me to write a poem. I also feel so blessed that Tracy will be reading it today at her friend's Celebration of Life. Thank you Tracy and Ute. There are no words that will truly express my deep appreciation.


THE JOURNEY　

Life is an ongoing journey
of different roads; different views.
At times the pathway can be bumpy
or smoothly paved with a silken glow.

It was an honor to walk with you
on a journey that always changed.
Up and down, right and left;
          a privilege all the same.

I was never surprised you became a teacher
as education came so natural to you.
You taught me about living while you were dying;
          the toughest subject of all.

How blessed I felt to walk the journey with you.
I’ll forever treasure the memories so near to my heart.
You gifts to me will never be forgotten.
So thank you for sharing your life with me.