TOTAL ACCEPTANCE

“Rosie”, ninety-two years old, was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer five days ago. The doctors informed her that the cancer has spread to her liver. Rosie declined any treatment as knew this cancer would likely take her life. Rosie is very independent and immediately knows what she wants and will easily express it.

Three years ago, Rosie moved to California to be near her daughter. She had been an artist in New York City and did say how she missed Manhattan. When one walks into Rosie’s home, your eyes are immediately drawn to her beautiful paintings displayed throughout.

Rosie laughs so easily and has totally accepted her terminal diagnosis without pause. Rosie started to tear up when talking about her family and friends and how so many care. I stated, “The support one has is what makes one cry.” It was then Rosie just broke down and had a good cry. She added that she hadn’t cried since the doctor told her about the cancer five days before.

The next moment, Rosie would laugh. She had an amazing sense of humor and such a positive look on life. She embraces her life and openly shares it with those around her. She is fun to be around and it is no surprise that she has an amazing network of family and friends as I truly believe; like attracts like.


TOTAL ACCEPTANCE

 She doesn't conform to society;
doing what others might typically do.
She lives her truth each day.
Not pressured by those around.

She is an artist by trade.
Her paintings reflect her free spirit beliefs.
Beautiful renditions of her life
displayed attractively throughout her home.

She accepts what comes her way,
no matter how grueling it may be.
Obstacles are never a barrier
as she will find her way around.

She was told last week she has cancer.
She adamantly said no to any treatment.
She looks at quality, not quantity of life.
Determined to do things her way.

I asked her how she is coping.
She denied any fears, stating,
“I am at peace and feel strong.”
Then laughing, “What is that all about?”

She cried because so many care.
She laughed because that is how she copes.
Living her life her way.
Total acceptance of what is to be.