POP!

“Violet”, eighty-seven, suffered for years from cardiac disease. Violet had been residing in a Skilled Nursing Facility for several years getting the care she needed. Violet and her husband were missionaries and traveled the world. Their daughter, “Sandy”, shared that the family moved every six months or so because of the parent’s ministry. Sandy added that they were taught as children to always help your fellow man. Sandy said one would feel her mother’s presence by her big heart and the love she shared with the world. Sandy's parents taught that amazing lesson by words and by their actions.

Violet had stopped eating and drinking about a week prior to being admitted to our hospice program. At the time of admission, Violet was unresponsive and in a coma. The family knew that her time was close. Violet had amazing support from her church community and her family. Once the family knew that Violet’s time was close, they would sit by her side throughout each day.

Sandy got an urgent midnight call from the facility to come quick as things had changed. Violet died a few hours later with her family by her side. Sandy said she is relieved that her mother is no longer suffering. She knows her mother is in a better place and doing great. Violet has left an amazing legacy.


POP!

She traveled the world
helping others in need.
It was her life's mission;
administering her faith.

Her presence was always felt.
She had that much love to share.
So they weren't surprised at how she left;
letting them know she was on her way.

She was unresponsive and in a deep sleep.
Her breathing was sporadic and slowing down.
The family had been holding vigil for days.
They knew her time was near.

They got an urgent call late one night.
There has been a big change; you need to come.
They rushed over and got there in time
to see her take her last breath.

Immediately they heard a large pop
while the hall lights flickered off.
Sitting in the dark in her room, they knew
she was telling them she was on her way.

Her family could feel her presence.
Somehow no one was surprised.
That was so how she would handle things.
One large pop, then a spiritual
       goodbye.