HARD WORKER

 “Jon”, seventy-three, was diagnosed with Bladder Cancer two years ago.  Coincidently, it was two weeks after his retirement.  Jon underwent chemotherapy and radiation, but his cancer continued to grow and metastasize.  Jon chose to stop treatment one month ago.  Since that time, he has become weaker and needing more help with his daily activities.  Jon can no longer ambulate and is bedridden.  He is dependent with all of his needs. 

Jon has been married for over fifty years.  They have three children and many grandchildren.  All of the family lives nearby and are very devoted to their father and to each other.  Jon’s daughter, “Anna”, told me that they have a “Joint Family”.  They all look out for each other.  It was so wonderful to hear their family stories of support and love. 

The family is struggling with Jon’s decline as he has always been a fighter.  The doctor had previously mentioned hospice over a year ago.  Jon and the family said no to hospice at that time.  Anna feels that her father is living because he is such a strong fighter. 

It appears that likely the family will all be shocked when Jon dies, but I know their love for each other and their strong faith will help them cope.  I believe that Jon isn’t the only “fighter” in this family.  They are strong!

HARD WORKER 

 

Coming to America thirty-five years ago,

his first concern was to support his family.

He was a professor in his home land,

while aware; that career likely was no more.

 

He labored in the fields, in a cannery

and the largest department store around.

Often working double shifts;

so focused on his family’s needs.

 

He retired two years ago last month.

Then, two weeks later, he heard the news.

“Chemotherapy and radiation are next

as it is cancer that has spread to your bones.”

 

These past two weeks have been dramatic.

His decline has been suddenly swift.

He is bedridden and not eating much at all.

It is so likely that his time is near.

 

The family cannot see his downturn as;

“He has forever been a fighter.

He has always had a strong will to live.

               He never gives up!”

 

He will continue to fight until the end

as that is how he handles difficult times.

He won’t go until he knows his family is okay;

as his focus is always to do what’s best for them.

 

He will live his life and manage his death

in the only way he knows how.

He will forevermore take care of his family,

as he is, and eternally will always be,

               a Hard Worker.