SPIRITUAL

I am the Admission Social Worker at my hospice. I feel so blessed to be able to meet so many who are coping with such challenges. All of us cope so differently, but I so often find humor in many of the homes I enter.

“Catherine”, eighty-nine, was admitted to our hospice today. The moment we met, her humor coated the conversation. Here, I walk in as a professional, but so many get me laughing so hard. I know it helps to connect with the patient and the family. Humor is so helpful in taking the edge off the stress of the situation.

Catherine had no fears or concerns about her end of life journey. She had tremendous family support. Her husband, along with all of her five children; and many grandchildren, were there. So many supporting her and each other. It was beautiful. The ninety minutes I spent in their home, was so special and fun. A perfect example of why I continue to do what I do.


SPIRITUAL　

I have to ask several specific questions
upon each hospice admission I do.
My favorite question to ask is,
"Do you have any religious or spiritual beliefs?"

Some have a strong faith; some not at all.
"What is your philosophy about life?"
There is no right or wrong answer.
I love to hear what folks deeply believe.

Religion is spiritual;
but spirituality is so much more.
It could be nature or the universe to you.
No matter what; it gives one support.

So many of us use humor to cope.
It helps take the edge off of the rough reality.
It makes it easier to get through each day.
          Laughter cleanses the soul.

I asked her about her religion or spirituality.
She paused and thought a moment; then said
“My family will have a séance after I die
and I will hear, “Trump is no longer president.”

It doesn’t matter what political party you choose.
It doesn’t really matter what you believe.
Humor pokes fun at all of us equally.
It helped her get through a bit easier today.