I have walked through many doors during my 36-year career as a Medical Social Worker. I meet so many who are challenged by an illness. Each of us is an individual and all cope in their own unique way. Most of the folks I meet during my workday are wonderful, loving and caring souls. But then we all cope so individually. That is what makes each of us unique.
I have always taken a deep breath prior to going through any door while talking to my gang upstairs, “Give me the tools to help”. Most always, they come through with much support and guidance. Their gift to me is so beautiful.
ONE NEVER KNOWS
I have been a Medical Social Worker
for almost thirty-six years.
I have walked through many hospital,
facilities and home front doors.
All patients are suffering from challenges;
but due to family dynamics, supports,
coping skills, strengths and frailties;
one never knows walking through that door.
She called our hospice to ask for a visit.
Her friend just recently died on our program.
“I would like more information about hospice
and end of life needs.”
As we arrived, she walked us into her family room.
She had many cups and saucers on the counter;
along with homemade loaf cakes and muffins.
Next; thirteen people walked into the family room.
“These are my friends from our exercise class.
I asked you here to teach us about hospice;
to explain about end-of-life needs such as
a POLST and Durable Power of Attorney.”
That was the last thing I expected to hear,
but was happy to present an in-service to them all.
The gift of knowledge is an amazing support,
but I thought she was ill and needing hospice soon.
Goes to show, when walking through a front door,
“One never knows.”
