“John”, ninety years old, had suffered from lung disease for many years. He easily adjusted by continuing to live his life. He accepted his situation, but with his strong personality, he had positive thoughts about managing tasks that he felt he needed to manage.
We met John’s wife and two children in the family room. They all had us laughing from the moment we entered their home. So many use humor to cope, which gives folks good support.
So frequently, after we explain hospice’s support; along with talking about the patient’s illness, families will tell us stories about the patient. One is so much more than their illness, but it is right in one’s face daily. Everyone has stories which define who one is. Coincidences are all part of the story.
THREE HOURS
He had adjusted to his lung problems
as has dealt with it for many years.
Recently things have become more challenging
as it is a lot harder for him to breathe.
His oxygen levels have been increased
as he gets short of breath with any exertion.
Due to weakness, he cannot get out of bed.
He has not eaten anything for over two days.
His devoted family gathered around yesterday
as we opened him to our hospice for support.
He slept throughout the entire visit.
The hospice nurse said, “It won’t be long”.
Three hours after we left, he took his last breath.
I spoke with his son today to check in.
“He just rolled over and stopped breathing.
It happened so fast; he gave us a gift.”
“There was so much support
as our entire family was at the bedside.
We all are doing alright as
it was so peaceful.”
He ended with sharing another family event.
“My brother-in-law has been on hospice too.
By stunning coincidence, he also died yesterday.
It was so soon after my dad; in just,
three hours' time.”
