I met with “Matt” today to admit him to our hospice. Today is his sixty-fifth birthday. He was recently diagnosed with liver cancer. The minute we met, he immediately, with a lot of enthusiasm, started telling me all about his life. Many folks, who have a terminal diagnosis, do share their life as it validates their existence.
He shared his life story very openly and honestly. He accepted all that he shared about his life. He saw life very simply with no deep rationale. His philosophy helped him strongly cope. He was a very amazing and fascinating man.
SIMPLE
It was just a few months ago
when he heard his doctor say; “Liver Cancer”.
He then did his research and concluded;
‘I do not want to pursue any treatment”.
He has a very compelling philosophical attitude;
along with seeing life from a simple perspective.
He spoke about the beginning of life centuries ago.
“The strongest were the ones who survived to move on.”
He spoke at length, sharing life stories with me.
He was surrounded by a lot of anger; a lot of heartache.
He accepted it all as the journey of one’s life.
“All that has happened was so meant to be.”
He has a long history of alcohol and meth abuse,
which has impacted his health so grievously.
“I try hard to help another when I can.
I don’t need thanks, but so need to tell them thanks”.
He spoke about strong Eastern Philosophy beliefs.
“I am saying a prayer for all.
I will make it through another day.
I am very busy living.
It is truly that simple.”
