SPIRITUALITY

We received a hospice referral for “Reggie”, age seventy-seven.  Reggie was diagnosed with a brain tumor only two years ago.  He underwent many tests and treatments; although to no avail.  Reggie had been in a slow decline, but these past two weeks, his decline has been much more rapid.  He is no longer talking much as struggles with his communication.  He may speak one or two words only.  His tumor is growing and impacting his ability to understand. 

Reggie lives with his wife, “Amber”, in a beautiful home along the river.  Reggie’s brother opened the front door after my knock.  We walked into a large living room.  Reggie’s brother called out for Amber as she was upstairs.  The moment Amber walked into the living room; I had a strong sense that I have known her all along.  She later shared that she felt the same way. 

Amber was realistic regarding Reggie’s decline and prognosis.  She easily verbalized her emotions and thoughts.  So sadly, Amber’s daughter was diagnosed with the same cancer three days after Reggie’s initial diagnosis.  With sadness, Amber embraced her strong spirituality beliefs.  Amber spoke of several other recent, additional losses with family members and friends. 

Amber will reach out as needed as I know her spirituality will guide her along.  I hope fate will allow the two of us to meet again.   She had such an amazing spirit.

SPIRITUALITY

 

He was diagnosed only two years ago.

All treatments were to no avail.

In just these past two weeks,

his decline has sped up so much more.

 

The moment I saw her walking into the room,

I knew our paths have crossed before.

We connected so easily; so normally.

Like we’ve known each other all along.

 

She has suffered from many recent losses.

What helps her cope; what gets her through,

is her strong belief in spirituality.

It naturally guides her throughout each day.

 

We spoke at length about spirituality

in such a natural, instinctive way.

We effortlessly spoke the same language

as our communication just flowed.

 

She is naturally grieving all of her losses,

but I know she will find her way.

She’ll reach out to her family; her friends;

while embracing her strongest support;

               her sanctity;

                              her spirituality.