END-OF-LIFE

"Gary", eighty years old, was admitted to our hospice program today. Gary was diagnosed a month ago with Colon Cancer that has spread to his liver. Gary has been in a decline since that time. Gary uses a cane to ambulate as is a bit wobbly on his feet. Family state that Gary's appetite is "up and down". Gary has lost weight since his diagnosis.

Gary lives with his wife, who is his primary caregiver. Their two children live nearby and are very supportive to their father. Gary has a tremendous network of friends who all want to help out in any way that they can.

Gary has accepted his recent diagnosis without any fear or concerns. He is a highly educated man and worked as a scientist for the state. Gary thinks things through in a very objective way. He informed the nurse and I about his process in the End-of-Life Option Act in a very matter-of-fact way. He is totally at peace about his decision as feels it is the only choice he has.

At one point, I was able to speak to Gary's family about his decision and all are supportive of his choice. They deeply know that this is his way and the only option that will work for him.

Most folks, after a new diagnosis, need time to process what the doctor has told them. Gary immediately knew what was the best choice for him. I wish him well and pray that he has a peaceful death.


END-OF-LIFE　

He was diagnosed only a month ago
with a cancer that had already spread.
No treatment or cure; no viable options.
There was nothing more to be done.

He then thought about what choices he had;
realizing there were only a few.
Next he made a doctor's appointment
initiating the End-of-Life Option Act.

He doesn't know about afterlife
as does not identify with any faith.
He has no fears or concerns at all;
          "It will be what it will be."

He has a strong, spiritual soul
living in the power of nature.
He hikes, he bikes, he loves the outdoors.
Multiple things that gives him peace.

I admire him for his convictions.
I admire him for his strength.
His unwavering belief; his strong principles;
in knowing what is so right for him;

          End-of-Life Option Act.